“We are all bound by the same humanity.”
-President Obama
We are all bound by the same humanity, and it’s that bond with makes what is happening in Japan so wrenchingly painful. I go through my day doing those day things -- working, cleaning, eating, loving, laughing, sharing – and I think of the thousands and thousands of people in Japan who aren’t doing any of those things. And whose way of doing those things have been changed, possibly forever.
When disaster strikes, I cling like a cat in a tree to the words of Mr. Rogers. He said that when explaining disasters to young children, look for the people who are doing good. Look for the helpers. I’ve used his wisdom to explain disasters like Haiti to my little girl. It not only helps her, but also gives me a feeling of peace. Helps me to believe that the goodness of the world is still in place, it’s just been shaken around a bit.
Yet the hugeness of the disaster in Japan has made it really hard for me to find the good, the hope. I am left with this helpless feeling of despair.
There are people in the world who can see through the pain and destruction. This beautiful example came from Ryu Murakami writing in The New York Times. At the time of the earthquake, he was in a hotel in Tokyo. And though there is so much in doubt, so much that is in question, he is staying in Tokyo. He writes:
“… evacuation centers are facing serious shortages of food, water and medicine; there are shortages of goods and power in the Tokyo area as well. Our way of life is threatened, and the government and utility companies have not responded adequately.
But for all we’ve lost, hope is in fact one thing we Japanese have regained. The great earthquake and tsunami have robbed us of many lives and resources. But we who were so intoxicated with our own prosperity have once again planted the seed of hope. So I choose to believe.
I read that with this earthquake, the island of Japan moved eight feet. The earth looked different after this earthquake and I pray that it’s not only the landscape that has changed. I pray that we as a people have also changed, or can be changed by these events. That we, a smart industrialized nation who is also intoxicated with its own prosperity, can start to plant our own seeds of hope.
And in this new world, not only do we need to look for the good, we need to become the good. We need to be a force of hope in a world that is falling apart around us.

Yes, we are indeed, bound by the same humanity. You mention two of my favorites here, our President and Mr. Rogers. Beautiful post, Marion. x
ReplyDeleteI've thought of you and Mr. Rogers this week too Marion.
ReplyDeleteI've found great comfort and wisdom in Jennifer Louden's post..hope you will too my friend. I'll forward it on.
Blessings
Yes, Marion, you speak for all of us. Beautiful sentiments.
ReplyDeleteThe images and the words speak to heart and yet trying to imagine living in such devastation and fear is difficult. Tragedy binds us as we continue marching forward keeping the people of Japan in our hearts, minds, and prayers.
ReplyDeleteI love this photo so much and it never fails to make me tear up! She is so beautiful and I can't believe that it could be anything else short of a miracle that she is so clean and untouched visually by this tragedy. Her little face is so calm...she is like a little Japanese cherry blossom!
ReplyDeleteIt is massive and hard to imagine, especially when I think of people I know in neighbouring cities, people who are just like me. I have no feelings of otherness with what happened in Japan, only sameness. I am heartened by the way people have come together over this tragedy. People do care, a lot.
ReplyDeleteIt seems that I learned Critical Thinking well before I learned to Be the Good. Still working on making the latter a regular state of being.
ReplyDeleteWonderful post. Thanks for sharing that fantastic tip for talking about disasters with young children. I have an incredibly sensitive four year old who carries the weight of the world on her shoulders. I've been shielding her from the coverage - I don't think she's aware of it. But I'm so glad to have that kernel of advice - about focussing on those who are doing good. Thank you.
ReplyDelete"...we need to become the good." Such poignant words in times like these; I too hope there can be some good, some hope to come from the devasation in Japan. This is a wonderful message and quoting Mr. Rogers never hurts:)
ReplyDeleteexceptionally beautiful writing
ReplyDeleteI read it twice to savor the hope and love and empathy
Peace
In a way it is comforting to me to know that others have felt this overwhelming sadness for the people of Japan...a proud, industrious people...I have no doubt that they have hope
ReplyDeleteBut sharing a burden is half a burden..thanks
ANd that precious baby..Yes, a cherry blossom
she gives us all hope
beautiful post today Marion
Beautiful sentiments expressed here. And I thank Dianne for pointing me in your direction.
ReplyDeleteJust wanted to let you know that your post has been in my thoughts since I read it yesterday. I've just linked to you in my latest post.
ReplyDeleteYou always know the best things to say. Mr Rogers was a very wise person too. Yes, I have thought of our country and wondered if we would respond so graciously as I see in Japan. I read a blog post on FB that said people that still had homes standing in the devastation would leave their doors open to others and know that no one would come in and loot. She even left her home for awhile and when she returned food and water was sitting at her door. I have been touched and it does give hope for humanity.
ReplyDeleteComing here is like going to church. You give me peace and I feel safer for having read this. Thank you.
ReplyDeleteI must say that Mr. Rogers really said a very wise thing --yes, I always remember it from ages ago -- I think around the time of the Chernoble disaster when my children were small.
ReplyDeleteThere will always be people striving to do good in the most awful circumstances.
I must say this week has been very sad indeed.
We took the family to the Botanical gardens on Saturday and saw lots of Japanese families there. Rather hard not to tear up a bit.
All best wishes
this is my first visit here.. love it 'cause there is a lot to learn from here :)
ReplyDeleteMarion, I read that piece by Murakami (I'm quite in awe of him), too. So true that we are bound by humanity. It's been gut wrenching for the entire world. It took me some time to finally write about Japan, but when I did, I had felt I had done my own little bit of good. Whatever I can do from my own little space in little 'ole RI. This is a beautiful, thoughtful post.
ReplyDeletecame back to say congrats on POTW over at Hilary's blog The Smitten Image
ReplyDeletethis is such a worthy read :)
Yes we do!! We need to foster hope wherever we can!!
ReplyDeleteCongrats on your POTW
Hugs
SueAnn
This is a wonderful post, Marion...a heartfelt reminder that we're all in this together, each of us bound by the same humanity, each of us capable of becoming a force for good. I found your reference to the wise Mr. Rogers especially touching.
ReplyDeleteWhat's happening in Japan breaks my heart...I send them my prayers every day, and my great admiration for the dignity and strength with which they're facing this challenge. I do hope North America and other affluent countries send support of a much more tangible nature.
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Lynette
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