Sunday, February 6, 2011

Nature is in Charge

On Thursday, and I was driving to work following a large dump truck full of snow. I know it was full of snow because the snow was blowing off the truck, onto my car. It was my own personal snowstorm, which, after just dealing with around two feet of snow, I could have done without.

This past month has dumped an unusually huge amount of snow on us. It’s snow like I’ve never seen, dropping one –two feet of snow each week. We haven’t had a full week of school or work since the first week of January, and there are huge piles of snow everywhere. The shape of how we move around, indeed how we live, have all be changed by the snow.

This winter, nature is in charge.

It reminds me of last summer when the ash cloud was erupting and airports in Europe were closing and travelers were stranded. Since I wasn’t stranded, I felt sort of cavalier about it and said, “Hey, Nature is in charge, so make the most of it. Go explore a part of London you didn’t see the first time. Surrender to nature and see what you can discover.” Make the most of the way that nature has forced you to change the route of your life.

And I started to think that maybe I am missing something with the way snow is impacting us. It’s definitely been bruiser of a winter, but maybe if I can just surrender to the fact that nature is in charge, I can start to see it differently.

So I did. And I found that these snow days are creating something really lovely. We’re inside with no place where we can go so there is no place we need to be. We are forced into this small world of our house and our family and the smallness and slowness of that creates discoveries that you might miss if you blew past them on a normal day.

Small little details like the way my daughter E’s head bounces up and down as she and the Beatles sing “I Want to Hold Your Hand.” How I can recognize the Cardinal singing his chirpy song before I even see his flashy red self . The way the wet and dry ingredients combine to make chocolate chip cookies. How roasting a chicken warms the house in ways that heat alone never could. The way E does 15 “pick a card any card” tricks and on the 16th try, I got say, “Yes!! That is my card!’ How naps are more healing when it’s snowing out.

Today, it’s sunny and the sun will be warming us for a couple of days. And while the weather channel says there is a “Wintery Threat” hanging over the mid-west and heading our way, I say, “Bring it on!” There is so much more to discover this winter.


Snow days are also old musical days in our house. This is a favorite from White Christmas. “I’ll wash my hair with snow…” there’s an idea!

13 comments:

  1. Bring it on! You've gone from surrendering to rejoicing. That's amazing mental and emotional work there! Got a chuckle out of the 15th try on pick a card...that's a mother's love for you.

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  2. beautiful! we've not had the severe weather you've had but everything was slowed down last week when we had freezing rain. schedules were interrupted, life put on hold it seemed since this area is not used to anything of the sort. i cringed looking at FB. all the moms complaining about being home with their kids due to snow days - made my heart break a bit for those kids. i personally enjoyed that our schedules were freed up and we could just be. together. pjs. hot coco. giggles. sounds to me like you found the beauty in winter too.

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  3. I admire your attempts to rationize your snowbound state, but it must be getting so tiresome.
    I particularly like the word "bruising" as too much cold weather really does leave one feeling blue.
    Yesterday we spent the day looking at houses -- and it was so cold and wet and windy. I came home and made a bread pudding -- and dove right in as soon as it came out of the oven.
    I stayed in bed this morning, with lots of cups of tea and Elizabeth Jane Howard's The Light Years. There were wonderful, evocative descriptions of summer . . . which really will come again!
    As the English say, "cheers."

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  4. I totally agree that nature is in charge. She has been exerting her considerable authority a little bit too much in Australia recently though...

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  5. I feel the warmth of your thoughts. I too have been trying to turn inward and embrace the snow, and the snowed in days. You have to look deep to uncover the joy, but its there when you do. Thanks for sharing these thoughts!

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  6. I surrendered to the snow long ago and I've come to delight in snow days. My mother always made those days something special and I followed suit with my own children. I'm so glad you too embrace the homey warmth of having no where to go because we just can't. I've been feeling like a lone winter pollyanna out here.

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  7. Last May I got delayed due to the volcanic ash and it was really fine, we arrived in Scotland a few hours late but no worries - we got there safe and sound. Right now, I'm trying to take your wise words to heart as I am so fed up with this long winter...so my mantra for now is your "surrender to nature". As always, Marion, a thought provoking post.

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  8. I love your attitude. You're right. As much as I don't love these winter days, I do find that I become a bit more introspective during this time of year, which is a good thing. And we definitely are having lots of quality family time together ;)

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  9. haha! i love your way of writing, and the sentiments behind it. i live in san francisco, but am originally from the mid-west and i MISS the snow. i miss the weather.....

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  10. There is a quietness about those snow days that is precious. And red cardinals singing is just wonderful. I don't think I could recognize their song anymore, it has been too long since I have seen one.

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  11. I absolutely agree with you! There is no use fighting against Nature and the more you embrace it, the more comfortable you become.

    My first couple of years in London were hard as I was used to 9 months of summer and 3 months of hibernation / winter. Now I look forward to four different and unique seasons a year and rather than be afriad of winter, I look forward to boots, coats and cute hats.

    The only preference I have is that if it is going to snow, it must do it properly. Don't make me walk to wawork on black ice or sludge! Snow me in!

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  12. I actually hate to see the sloppy thaw. I've enjoyed this extra snow-laden winter. (Danny Kaye is the best, isn't he?)

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  13. I like your attitude, it is entirely right.

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